.Thursday, May 25, 2006 ' 4:23 PM Y
lose one friend, lose all friends, lose yourself
How Much Does Your Love Cost?
In a relationship, I bet there must be some topics that are taboo to bring out in a relationship. Let quote an example, ‘How much I have spent on you?’
Why must a relationship be so calculative? Why must we calculate how much we actually spent on the other party to measure the scale of love? Why do people LOVE to bring out those items that they bought for the other party during the heat of an argument? Doesn’t it makes that love of yours too CHEAP? Oh ya, they brought those issues out because they got agitated. Oh, is that why murder rate in Singapore is also increasing?
‘Sorry’ can be accepted when the other party has admitted their mistakes but it can’t be accepted when they start to explore more areas of defence for their own mistakes and demand a counter apology from the other party for their virtues! That is ABSURB!
Oh ya, a sincere apology should be accepted if that person really changed for good and not OPS, DID IT AGAIN AND AGAIN! How can one be forgiven when ‘IT’ knowingly but still insisting in committing that fault?
Men are perceived to be the gentleman (MYTH!) and why are SOME in turn are so petty and calculative to their every bits of contribution? Yup, women can be equally bad and wrong in an argument. But things started to go wrong when the guy demand a clear equal share of faults / blames made in a relationship to be listed out! Example, ‘I am only 49.9% in the wrong! You are 50.1% in the wrong! So you should apologize to me NOW!’ Isn’t that shocking? Well, I bet there are REALLY SOME MEN out there have such mentality!
Oh well, ‘arguments are like sex and need two to get started’ quoted by an idiot, does that mean you have to take out an progress card to access each other performance after a sex session? If you do well in that sex session, are you going to paste an A* sticker on your chest?
“When you have said a hundred times "I'm sorry" in all sincerity, and that someone still does not want to forgive you, what can you do? You can give up.”
This person have just answered you the reason for the increasing of divorce and break-up rates.
J said: ‘I just hate to blog about relationship matters because it show how childish can one be to choose such a mode of communication to voice his unhappiness. But today, I have to choose this mode of communication to communicate to this particular childish boy! Don’t blame me on my part of provokation because if you can’t handle your temper then forget it. I don’t want to be the abused victim in a relationship! I don’t want to be physically, mentally and verbally hurt in this relationship. I have enough! You might also get hurt in this relationship, then pls advise me WAD TO DO NEXT!’
